At first I though I was too cool (or un-cool depending on how you look at it) for Facebook.
For kicks, last year I set up a profile.
Now I’ve got over 130 friends.
That in and of itself is not a big deal. What is a big deal is the fact that these friends are my current co-workers, past co-workers, fellow law school students, classmates from high school and college, former students, family, neighbors, musicians that I like, and, of course, plain old friends.
The big deal is that I can easily keep track of what is going on in their lives on a daily basis. They publish their status updates, activities, photos, and so on. I know who’s on vacation, where they are, and what they doing. I know who is at work, who is feeling up, who is feeling down, who is having a birthday, who is wise-cracking, who is tired, and who was awake in the middle of the night.
Compared to other ways of staying in touch, Facebook wins hands down. Phone calls? Too intrusive. Texting? Too limited. USmail? Too slow, too Eighties. Email? Too much commitment involved and not immediate enough. IM? Also too intrusive.
And the nice thing: No one can accuse you of being nosy on Facebook, since status updates are voluntarily published. I know these things because my friends choose to share them.
Furthermore, I can publish my updates as well, let everyone know what I am doing, feeling and so on. I can do this for kicks or for purposes of “selling” the brand name of myself.
On top of all this, they have a pretty good mobile interface that I can actually use from my cell phone.
Nice work, Facebook.